Let's say a little prayer.

Gramma's admitted. She fell sick and was diagnosed with something called vertigo a.k.a nausea due to the effects from her new medication for her stroke.

So I'm spending the night with her at the hospital. I hope everything gets better in the morning for her.

Tomorrow at 0900hours, CT scan. To finalize and to come to a conclusion of what is really going on with her because she is not improving from her stroke.

And to my dear brothers and sisters, please light your candles. Pray for gramma and give her strength and give us all faith that everything will be just fine.

I pray on the principle that wine knocks the cork out of a bottle. There is an inward fermentation, and there must be a vent. ~Henry Ward Beecher.

The shortest distance between two people is a SMILE.

Good afternoon all. As some of you who already know this, yesterday could have been the worst day ever for me. Today is not getting any better either because gramma fell sick. And just perhaps, Monday might not be any better too. But I'm keeping my fingers crossed, hoping for the best, keeping my faith up and sending my prayers to God every night. She felt like vomiting since last night due to gastric problems but I'm glad she's feeling much better now after letting it all out. She's resting. Let's just hope that nothing gets worst.

To better news now. Last night we went over to my aunt's place to celebrate Naomi's, my cousin sister's 7th birthday. It was comforting being with them actually. It stops me from worrying and thinking to much about what's been happening lately. And the kids finally put up the Christmas tree too. Was suppose to do it next week with Liv because we've been putting it up together every year so it's kinda like a routine. I'm shorry, Honey! I know how much you wanted to put it up with me :( I promise, next year we will put it up aite? ;)

It's MY beautiful distraction ♥

Christmas Christmas time is near..
Time for toys and time for cheer..

If only we'd stop trying to be happy we could have a pretty good time.



Even is happiness forgets you a little bit, never completely forget about it.



The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up!
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SO SMILE AND CHEER ME UP! :)



A smile is a curve that sets everything straight.

HAPPY 7TH BIRTHDAY NAOMI!

XX,
Che Che Mally ♥

Querido Amigo ♥

About a month or two ago, I met this old friend back from high school. We never actually mingled back in school nor we were ever close then. But recently, something brought us both together. We randomly decided to meet up and talked like we've known each other like forever! We instantly clicked only to find that we shared something in common. The passion for true friendships and everlasting relationships. What surprised me is that I could talk to her about anything! She understands me to the core, she's frank in a good way, she's honest and she's kind hearted to everyone. Not to mention, she's one helluva babe! What a beautiful lady she turn out to be now :) So here's a toast to a start of a beautiful friendship!

It's better late than never and I would like to dedicate this to my darling friend, June Yeoh :)

HAPPY BELATED 21ST BIRTHDAY, JUNEY!



She is an amazing person, both inside and out :)



She have proved that true friends still exist.



And because of her courage and strength, I always look up to her for inspiration and I've learnt a lot from her on how to be strong and wise.
Thanks for being a lovely FRIEND! :)

Words can never be enough to express how much I appreciate you! All the times when life almost feel so useless, you're always there to pick me up and help me put the pieces back together. Considering the fact that we've just got to know each other, time can never judge how our friendship is! It's how WE understand friendship.

My wish for you :

To have a happier and blissful year ahead be it with studies, work, friends or love. You're one strong woman! You can do whatever it takes. Believe in yourself because we all believe in you, buddie! God bless and have a blessed year ahead.

*hugss&kisses*

Remind yourself everyday that you are the superwoman in you..

I am nowhere perfect.

I eat when I am bored.
I'm vulnerable to believing lies.
I'm hoping one day I won't need a fake smile.
I live by quotes that explains exactly what I'm going through.
I have best friends and enemies.
I have drama and memories.
And that's LIFE.
Live it, love it, learn from it.

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I have been thinking a lot about what's my my new years' resolution gona be. Considering all the things that has been happening around me, I aught to make a better resolution and live up to it this time. I've realize who my truest friends are now. The friends I've been hanging out lately have really opened up my eyes and mind to something new, something better too. Not being so attached to anyone actually creates a more comforting aura and surrounding because whatever happens, we won't get fully affected. You get what I mean? It's like when there is lesser attachments, lesser emotions will be involved therefore lesser problems and lesser issues. But then again, nobody want's to be a loner. Everybody needs someone, no matter how strong you are. We need at least that one person, that one friend or a companion, to be there to hold our hand through ups and downs. Maybe it's just how some of us think. Everybody thinks differently and everybody has different opinions about life. How they wish to manage it and carry on with it. So here's my question, would you rather live life being a friend to all equally without that best friend or would you live life being close to one or more and have many friends? Or can we just have both? I wish to have both though :) I personally think that each has their own pros and cons. So there's never an easy way no?

A BETTER ME, A BETTER LIFE!

:)

Smile no matter what.

I've met people whom I eventually became very close friends with. But in time to come, people change. Some being distant from you, some made new best friends along the way and some even change in character drastically. The bad part of friendship is that you get the feeling that you have been replaced or forgotten, when distance becomes a matter. Sad but true. Maybe it's nothing or maybe things are not as it seems. Maybe it's just our mind playing tricks with us? Or perhaps, it's just so true. One thing I've learnt so far is to never get too attached to someone. Or you might just hurt yourself a little more sometimes. And never make someone your priority when you are only an option to them.

I'm tired of initiating to meet up sometimes because there are just reasons after reasons. Why on earth do people come up with reasons when there's time for others but me? So I think I will back out. It's pretty tiring you see. I'm just glad I have my darling friends who still finds time to be with me :)

Gona enjoy myself at Lost World tomorrow with the groupie. Can't wait! :D

Party Like A Rockstar!

Party, one after another. As you all know from my previous post, Yoha celebrated his 21st birthday on Friday and yesterday, Navin celebrated his 21st birthday. And f.y.i., Navin's birthday was in January. Talk about late! But it's better late than never no? :) I enjoyed myself to the max yesterday. Like seriously. Finally, after years of retirement from clubbing, I had my fair share of dancing yesterday only to realize that I was already pretty rotten from my moves. And to my surprise, I saw Liven dancing for the first time yesterday and let me tell you, HE CAUGHT ME OFF GUARD. Watching him shake that thang turned me on big time! *blush* I was embarrassed myself because I couldn't dance that well myself at that time. But anyways, I'm planning to get Liven to come start clubbing with me if there's a chance. I miss the dancing part which I usually get on with my girlfriends. Some people think clubbing is inappropriate for girls but well, everybody has their personal opinion no? I don't go there for the drinks, but I enjoy going there to have fun with my girlfriends and boyfriends. Company and THE clique is all I need to have fun! Next time Mally, next time.

Well, since facebook is being such a nuisance, I shall load some pictures here first. Full album on Yo's birthday and Navin's birthday will be uploaded soon in facebook, peeps! That's if facebook will just stop being so slow at times.

Group picture :)



The groupie feeding THE birthday boy.



Featuring Meatloaf and Lovey Livvy.



Mally and Patrick.



Us <3



Another group shot.



Just look at the mountain! Pfft =.=



Mally and Khai Li @ Carey.



The birthday boy and his partner in crime taking a break from the dance floor.



I love houses with huge looooong mirrors.



And another group shot.



Mally and long time lesbo partner.



Piggys!



Mally and Meatloaf, of course.





Presenting T-Bell and DJ Afro :)
*nickname given by Meatloaf*

Fun fun fun weekend with no regrets at all! Next in my to-do list : Lost World of Tambun with some awesome old time Michaelian friends. Weehoo! Niteynites all. xx

"Two may talk together under the same roof for many years, yet never really meet; and two others at first speech are old friends." - Mary Catherwood.

Life is so far.... INTERESTING.

Celebrated Yohanand's wayyyy belated 21st birthday bash last night. Loved the get together part, meeting old and new friends. And a lovely sleepover at my place with Eza darling after.

The birthday boy with the family.

Birthday boy at this greatest talent, MUSIC.

Kumara was supposed to sing "I Don't Care" by Fall Out Boy but he had cold feet the very last minute. But everyone gave their support and with much persuasion...

...he sang, EVENTUALLY! :)

All the 21 year old dudes and dudettes.

Eza. Mally. Daph.

Summer Girls ♥

♥ ♥ ♥

Mally. Eza. Daph. Mun Yee.

Okay, this dude next to Navin, we all just met him yesterday. He's Navin's friend from KL. Mix African-Indian. Awesome dude! Very funny, very sporting. That explains the dance movements from them both. They were totally rockin' it mann! Haha.

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I guess we're all pretty tired and restless. With mister being all quiet and restless with me because he's down with fever and flu. && me with the whole "issue" thing (if you have read my previous post) and I am being quiet myself. Guess we just need some time apart for the moment. But I'm feeling less "hot" now but still moodless. I don't think any of us fancy being this way right? Mood swings with extra sensitivity when it comes to every little thing. But we're just humans. We feel because we have feelings. Well, everything takes time. Since there's another party tonight, let's hope all of us will have fun together! :) I shall go take a nice afternoon nap now. Okthenbye.

Just because today is a terrible day, doesn't mean tomorrow won't be a better day..

Being in three is not so perfect? Maybe being an individual is much better.

Somehow now, I see that being one is better than being in three(s).

Something made me lose my control which ended up making me cry. How tired I already am with all this drama. When A, B and C was perfect together. And when A and B patches up and B and C have conflicts, and A goes back to C and B is left clueless. I somehow feel that everything is so hypocritical to me. I don't know who I can trust no more. Don't know who I can turn to. Don't know if we actually understand each other anymore. And as I'm writing this, I just feel myself choking. About to burst out in tears. Maybe this is it for me. I wish I wasn't so attached to any of this or any of you. From angry, to sad, to getting so so hurt. Some people think we make a fuss out of small things. Maybe it's just you who don't realize things. When a few party realizes them, it's not us who has a problem now isn't it? What to do? Will someone please tell me already.